Balancing Home, Family & Start Up

February 18, 2007

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Start Up Princess Jamie Bird of MiniMe Baby Gear writes:

As my business has grown, I noticed work starting to creep into every aspect
of my day. My son would start playing by himself, so I would sneak off to
return e-mails, package and ship items, finish an order. It was a daily
dance of sneaking, finding, whining, shifting his attention, then trying to
work again. Pulled in two different directions, I was not being effective in
either. Even though in the wee hours of the morning everything was finally
accomplished, I felt worn out, sick from lack of decent rest, and most of
all, guilty.

A friend referred Suzanne’s Diary for Nicholas by James Patterson,
specifically the last lesson in the book. Imagine your life is a game of
juggling five balls- work, family, integrity, friends, and health. I also
have added a sixth, most important ball- my relationship with God. You‚re
trying daily to keep all of them in the air. Then you come to understand
that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back
. The other
five are all glass. If they are dropped, they will be damaged, scuffed, even
shattered beyond repair. And once you understand the lesson of the five
balls, then you will have the beginning of balance in your life.

This word picture made me realize that my life needed an adjustment. I want
my business to succeed, but I also need balance in my life. This philosophy
has made me put less pressure on myself to work constantly. I feel a lot
less guilty at the end of the day, and my son is happier too.

Comments

2 Responses to “Balancing Home, Family & Start Up”

  1. Marina Westerdahl on February 21st, 2007 6:08 am

    Jamie, I loved your post, it’s so true. It’s so necessary to be reminded of that every now and then. Business is a growing challenge and the drive to succeed is so intense…so at times we have to force our selves to re-examine our priorities, and to realize that our children are growing up so quickly! In ten years, if I have any regrets, I know they won’t be that I didn’t work more…I’ll be wishing my kids were still little and still wanted me around!

  2. startupprincess on February 25th, 2007 10:03 pm

    Jamie, I just wanted to mention that I was at a conference on Friday on life balance and they also quoted this analogy of the five glass balls…and it was originally said by the former CEO of Coca Cola, Bryan G. Dyson. Very powerful comment.

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